You can make a *fixed* "keep the Family happy" attenuator with an 8 or 10 ohm, 10 watt resistor, plus a 1 ohm or 0.47ohm, 2 W one.
Wire both in series; connect the free end of the 10 ohm one to the amplifier output hot lead, the free end of the 0.5 or 1 ohm to amp out ground and speaker ground, the midpoint to speaker hot.
Instant bedroom amp.
You can build it into a box with a switch to bypass it, or just with an input and output jack, or on a board bolted to your Crate inside, on a side or bottom.
Anyway you do not need to switch it quickly, it's not an effect, plugging it in/out is quite acceptable.
If you need a drawing, I'll do that later, now i'm sort of busy.
Good luck.